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<rss version="2.0"><channel><description>My name’s Jesse. I’m a programmer, and I like to ride my bicycle. I live in San Francisco, and my life is good.Lijit Search_uacct = "UA-3571135-1";urchinTracker();</description><title>Codery</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @codery)</generator><link>http://blog.codery.com/</link><item><title>A vagrant who looks like the lead singer of the rolling stones sits quietly in a corner regarding me...</title><description>A vagrant who looks like the lead singer of the rolling stones sits quietly in a corner regarding me and the other patrons with a blank expression. Despite his ratty forty niners jacket he and I aren’t so different.</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41030517</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41030517</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 19:35:28 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>The real game-changer is firmware 2.0 and luckily, all iPhone...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/dLWqW7OMib0yriury6jBVt96_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The real game-changer is firmware 2.0 and luckily, all iPhone users will be able to use it. The AppStore is going to completely change the iPhone experience more so than 3G and GPS will because our personal needs will be met by varying apps. Not everyone needs 3G and GPS, but everyone will find a need for different third party apps. I’m not saying that I’ll NEVER buy an iPhone 3G. I think it’s a GREAT deal for those who don’t currently have iPhones and need 3G &amp; GPS in their daily lives. Just don’t expect me to be in line with you guys come July 11th. (via &lt;a href="http://www.theiphoneblog.com/2008/06/11/tipb-vs-tipb-top-5-reasons-why-im-not-upgrading-to-iphone-3g/" target="_blank"&gt;TiPb vs TiPb: Top 5 Reasons Why I’m NOT Upgrading to iPhone 3G | The iPhone Blog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41017136</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41017136</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 16:24:46 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"Proponents of biosocial learning models indicate that individuals with HPD have learned to get what..."</title><description>“Proponents of biosocial learning models indicate that individuals with HPD have learned to get what they want from others by drawing attention to themselves.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.minddisorders.com/Flu-Inv/Histrionic-personality-disorder.html" target="_blank"&gt;Histrionic personality disorder - &lt;b&gt;BIOSOCIAL LEARNING CAUSES.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41016582</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41016582</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 16:14:27 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"HPD has a unique position among the personality disorders in that it is the only personality..."</title><description>“HPD has a unique position among the personality disorders in that it is the only personality disorder explicitly connected to a patient’s physical appearance. Researchers have found that HPD appears primarily in men and women with above-average physical appearances.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.minddisorders.com/Flu-Inv/Histrionic-personality-disorder.html" target="_blank"&gt;Histrionic personality disorder - Definition, Description, Causes and symptoms, Demographics, Diagnosis, Treatments, Prognosis, Prevention&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41016141</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41016141</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 16:09:30 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>How do I get closer to you When you keep it all on mute How will...</title><description>&lt;embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://blog.codery.com/swf/audio_player.swf?audio_file=http://www.tumblr.com/audio_file/41012693/dLWqW7OMib0wemdsriq9yXJh&amp;color=FFFFFF" height="27" width="207" quality="best"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How do I get closer to you &lt;br/&gt;When you keep it all on mute &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt;How will I know the right way to love you &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Usually the Queen of figurin out &lt;br/&gt;Breaking down a man is no work out &lt;br/&gt;But I have no clue &lt;br/&gt;How to get through to you &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I wanna hit you just to see if you cry &lt;br/&gt;I keep knockin’ on wood, hopin there’s a real boy inside &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;But you’re not a man  &lt;br/&gt;You’re just a Mannequin &lt;br/&gt;I wish you could feel that my love is real  &lt;br/&gt;But you’re not a man &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I wish I could just turn you on  &lt;br/&gt;Put a battery in and make you talk &lt;br/&gt;Even pull a string for you to say anything &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;But with you there is no guarantee &lt;br/&gt;Only expired warranty &lt;br/&gt;A bunch of broken parts &lt;br/&gt;And &lt;b&gt;I can’t seem to find your heart &lt;br/&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.katyperry.com/" target="_blank"&gt;“Mannequin” by Katy Perry, from her new album “One of the Boys”&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41012693</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41012693</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 15:18:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>You’re so sad maybe you should buy a happy meal You’re so skinny...</title><description>&lt;embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://blog.codery.com/swf/audio_player.swf?audio_file=http://www.tumblr.com/audio_file/41012636/dLWqW7OMib0wdeim0E8W9ZJh&amp;color=FFFFFF" height="27" width="207" quality="best"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;You’re so sad maybe you should buy a happy meal&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt; You’re so skinny you should really Super Size the deal&lt;br/&gt;&lt;b&gt;Secretly you’re so amused&lt;br/&gt; That nobody understands you&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt; I’m so mean cause &lt;b&gt;I cannot get you outta your head&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt; I’m so angry cause &lt;b&gt;you’d rather MySpace instead&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br/&gt; I can’t believe I fell in love with someone that wears more makeup than…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.katyperry.com/" target="_blank"&gt;“UR So Gay” by Katy Perry, from her new album “One of the Boys”&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41012636</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41012636</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 15:17:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"Males with HPD usually present problems of identity crisis, disturbed relationships, and lack of..."</title><description>“Males with HPD usually present problems of identity crisis, disturbed relationships, and &lt;b&gt;lack of impulse control&lt;/b&gt;. They have antisocial tendencies and are inclined to exploit physical symptoms as a method of false control. These men are emotionally immature (although they tend to believe the exact opposite), dramatic (although many are adept at covering it up), and shallow (although they tend to believe their feelings are so deep that no other single person could ever understand). Men with HPD &lt;b&gt;tend to be very introspective and create a false sense of reality&lt;/b&gt; effectively convincing themselves of whatever they need to believe in order to remain emotionally unattached from anything/anyone. HPD males with antisocial tendencies &lt;b&gt;shift between periods of isolation and those of extreme social conquest&lt;/b&gt; (each shift can last a matter of days to periods lasting several years). &lt;b&gt;They may require isolated retreats in order to obtain a comfortable level of understanding and acceptable functioning&lt;/b&gt;. HPD antisocial males are dependent upon no one in particular but &lt;b&gt;crave that others are dependent upon them&lt;/b&gt;. Although males often have chameleon-like social skills (similar to HPD females), they tend to have &lt;b&gt;trouble keeping lengthy friendships afloat&lt;/b&gt; as their paranoia (real and imagined) may eventually lead to a near &lt;b&gt;complete and permanent disposal of all interpersonal relationships at a given time effectively eliminating any emotional responsibility and accountability for their manipulative ways&lt;/b&gt;. They tend to genuinely search for intimacy (many believe in “the one”) while remaining unable to regulate their perceived level of intimacy for any given interpersonal relationship making it very difficult to build anything other than turbulent relations. Males with HPD may believe in the supernatural such as fortune telling or mind reading including the &lt;b&gt;belief that there are many hidden messages and notions in public works that are specifically meant for them&lt;/b&gt;. When HPD antisocial males believe they are being manipulated they may morph into sociopathic relations with their perceived enemies yet remain overly loyal to perceived friends. HPD men are often times &lt;b&gt;intensely driven by their quest to conquer life despite having no real sense of direction or control resulting in frequent changes of overly passionate interests.&lt;/b&gt; [2] Both men and women with HPD engage in &lt;b&gt;disinhibited behavior such as promiscuity&lt;/b&gt; and substance abuse.[3]”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;Is it just me or does it sound like this entry was written by a scorned woman? Of course, that’s probably just me convincing myself of whatever I need to believe in order to remain emotionally unattached from anything/anyone. ;-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Histrionic_personality_disorder" target="_blank"&gt;Histrionic personality disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41011073</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41011073</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:55:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"D – Difficulty making everyday decisionsE – Excessive lengths to obtain nurturance and support from..."</title><description>“D – Difficulty making everyday decisions&lt;br/&gt;E – Excessive lengths to obtain nurturance and support from others &lt;br/&gt;P – Preoccupied with fears of being left to take care of self &lt;br/&gt;E – Exaggerated fears of being unable to care for himself or herself &lt;br/&gt;N – Needs others to assume responsibility for his or her life &lt;br/&gt;D – Difficulty expressing disagreement with others &lt;br/&gt;E – End of a close relationship is the beginning of another relationship &lt;br/&gt;N – Noticeable difficulties in initiating projects or doing things on his or her own &lt;br/&gt;T – “Take care of me” is his or her motto”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dependent_Personality_Disorder" target="_blank"&gt;Dependent personality disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41009733</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41009733</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:40:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"Some believe that codependency is not a negative trait, and does not need to be treated, as it is..."</title><description>“Some believe that codependency is not a negative trait, and does not need to be treated, as it is more likely a healthy personality trait taken to excess. Codependency in nonclinical populations has some links with favorable characteristics of family functioning”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependence" target="_blank"&gt;Codependence - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41009258</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41009258</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:31:25 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for persons who depend on him or her"</title><description>“someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for persons who depend on him or her”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codependence" target="_blank"&gt;Codependence - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41009134</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41009134</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:30:13 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"Lack of independence or self-sufficiency; Being abnormally tolerant to and dependent on something..."</title><description>“Lack of independence or self-sufficiency; Being abnormally tolerant to and dependent on something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.answers.com/dependence&amp;r=67" target="_blank"&gt;dependence: Definition, Synonyms and Much More from Answers.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41008991</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41008991</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:27:53 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"The condition of being free from restriction or control."</title><description>“The condition of being free from restriction or control.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.answers.com/liberty&amp;r=67" target="_blank"&gt;liberty: Definition, Synonyms and Much More from Answers.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41008357</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41008357</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:20:36 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"I am lord of myself, accountable to none.” - Benjamin Franklin"</title><description>““I am lord of myself, accountable to none.” - Benjamin Franklin”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.answers.com/independence&amp;r=67" target="_blank"&gt;independence: Definition, Synonyms and Much More from Answers.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/41008201</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/41008201</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:17:52 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>A wildfire eating through rugged country along the Big Sur coast...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://media.tumblr.com/dLWqW7OMiazpu1sdCM2JeXh6_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;A wildfire eating through rugged country along the Big Sur coast destroyed at least three more homes overnight and this morning, bringing to 19 the number of residences consumed by a blaze that has forced the evacuation of this world-famous enclave for the Fourth of July weekend. (via &lt;a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2008/07/03/BA4111JIQL.DTL&amp;tsp=1" target="_blank"&gt;Out-of-control Big Sur fire destroys 3 more homes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/40907391</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/40907391</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 19:26:59 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>Britches - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia</title><description>&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Britches" target="_blank"&gt;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Britches&lt;/a&gt; Sent by my thumbs</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/40863565</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/40863565</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 11:13:30 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>GRINDHOUSE - all 4 fake movie trailers</title><description>Check out this video on YouTube: &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmckBc0aG3M" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmckBc0aG3M&lt;/a&gt; Sent by my thumbs</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/40789338</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/40789338</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 23:28:31 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>iPhone Shuffle</title><description>But does it clip on my jacket!? &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwnsQpcNvpE" target="_blank"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QwnsQpcNvpE&lt;/a&gt; Sent by my thumbs</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/40776174</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/40776174</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:57:01 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"I write saying, ‘thank you Scarlett for doing what you do,’ and suddenly we have this email..."</title><description>“I write saying, ‘thank you Scarlett for doing what you do,’ and suddenly we have this email relationship.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;“and by ‘what you do’ I mean, be hot” ;-)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;- Barack Obama on his “personal dilogue” over e-mail with Scarlett Johansson (via &lt;a href="http://whatilearnd.com/" target="_blank"&gt;dihard&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/40774469</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/40774469</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:38:00 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>emersunn:gahhhhhhh! Men cannot wait tables. Stay in the kitchen, boys.sexist :-P</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://emersunn.com/post/40773590/gahhhhhhh-men-cannot-wait-tables-stay-in-the" target="_blank"&gt;emersunn&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;gahhhhhhh! Men cannot wait tables. Stay in the kitchen, boys.&lt;/blockquote&gt;sexist :-P</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/40774044</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/40774044</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:32:32 -0700</pubDate></item><item><title>"We like experiencing the same things that other people are experiencing — and the mere fact that..."</title><description>“We like experiencing the same things that other people are experiencing — and the mere fact that other people are experiencing and liking something makes us like it even more.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB121493784638920147.html" target="_blank"&gt;WSJ&lt;/a&gt; (via &lt;a href="http://catslock.com/" target="_blank"&gt;zoya&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://blog.codery.com/post/40773883</link><guid>http://blog.codery.com/post/40773883</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 20:31:08 -0700</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
